It's — why are you still trying to meet women at loud, crowded and expensive bars? There are so many different things that can go wrong. If it's too packed, you could lose a half-hour just waiting to buy a drink; too empty and it'll feel weird and sad, and you won't be able to meet anyone new. Finding someone you're interested in typically begins with you surveying the scene and looking for people who are both attractive and not visibly taken -- or settling for just one of the two.
10 Places Guys Can Meet Women (Without Being A Total Creep About It)
9 Places Where a Good Guy Can Meet A Good Girl
The problem: The solution: Is this approach too simplistic? Too vague? Just select Option 4 on this page. Recent research published in the American Sociological Review suggests the kind of relationship you want will dictate where you should go to meet women. So, the first order of business is to figure out what kind of relationship you want, and then plot your social route around this choice.
Where To Meet Women You Actually Want To Date
While I know a few friends who have had success in both arenas, the typical good guy ideally would like to meet the girl of his dreams in his habitat. You have to be yourself if you want to capture her attention, so why not brainstorm some places your good girl might be waiting? While walking through the UCLA campus a few weeks ago, a buddy and me watched a guy come running out of the gym to ask a girl for her number. Kudos on his courage. She blushed, and he got the digits.
Meeting girls can be a stressful thing, especially if you have no idea what you're doing. Whether you want to meet a girl for friendship, fling, or serious relationship, there's are certain things that you should and shouldn't do to increase your chances of building a relationship with her. Luckily, meeting girls is often a lot less difficult than people think. If you learn how to introduce yourself and then actively put yourself in social situations, meeting girls is a breeze.